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okay please dont judge me im begginnggg you..
but im 14 gonna be 15 in like 8 days.
but me n my boyfriend of 3 years have had sex b4.
and this last time we had it he didnt wear a condom.
i took a test and it showed up positive.
i took one about 3 weeks ago.
i took another one just last week and that one also said positive.
i have no i dea what to do.
my byfriend and i both want to keep it.
but have no idea how to tell our parents.
pleasee tell me something to doo. (link)
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I am not judging you because the deed has been done.
Here is my advice:
Go to a doctor and have the pregnancy confirmed. Listen to his/her advice because they will be able to refer you on to a pregnancy service for teenagers. They will give you all the information you need on making a very huge decision about yours and the baby's future.
Once you have established a definite pregnancy and have discussed your options with a professional, then is the time to tell your parents.
If you decide to keep the baby they will all probably be hugely disappointed. However, look to the future and hold onto that vision. Your parents will most likely melt at the sight of their new grandchild.
If my own daughter were to fall pregnant at 14, yes I would be very angry and upset, it is a natural reaction to my daughter growing up too early. I would listen to her wishes and support her the very best I could, but I would be disappointed all the same.
Please don't try to hide the situation because you need a lot of support.
Have faith in yourselves and the fact that your parents do love you and only want the best. Ride out the storm that will surely come and know that it will not last forever. Every day that passes by is another day closer to being an adult and you will get through this.
I wish you all the very best and very good luck.
In answer to your recent question - the answer is yes I would.
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thanksss =D
uhmm would you let your daughter keep the baby.
cause me n Denny (the father of my child) really want to keep it.
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