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Hello, My name is... Michelle!Ive been through a lot,so i know different stuff and could prolly give you some sort of advice.
Ive been through:eviction,my father leaving, 5 dads/wanna be dads,drugs,smoking,alcohol, best friends having babies,cheating,love triangles, sex buddies, family/friends deaths, abuse, stress, sicknesses, bi friends,miscarriage,etc. etc.
I love to laugh.Sometimes I cry, and I'm not always sure why. I love to have friends, but only few are real. I hate a lot of people, yet I'm nice to everyone. I try to figure things out, but yet I get nothing.I love being right. But always wrong. I love being close to people. but yet I'm so far.I tell myself things. and never do them. I know who I am. But not enough.
I lie to cover the pain. But it's revealed by honesty. I get away with too much. I'm always so messy.And my room is too.This is my life.
And I like this way.
Ask me anything because even if I'm not sure I'll try my best to help you and I'll let you know in my answer if I'm not sure!
I'm very wierd!or according to most people I am. I consider myself wierd too so its all good.
*Michelle*
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14/f. I've been single for nearly a year, which I don't have a problem with, but me and this guy have sort of started talking. I've never kissed anyone, though a guy came close to kissing me at homecoming, then the song ended and he walked away. I'm not very assertive, in the whole relationship field, so if me and the guy I'm talking to, or another one for that matter, in the future, started dating me, and we were going to kiss each other, how exactly do I kiss? And I don't want to make the first move for my first kiss, but later, if I did want to kiss someone, how would I make the first move on him? I'm sort of clueless and just trying to be prepared. My friends have already had their first kisses, so I'm the oddball, they say it comes naturally, but the guy that was gonna kiss me at homecoming was starting to lean in and I had no idea what to do! So, help is appreciated greatly :) Sorry for the length.
i agree with your friends it does come naturally. that guy who was going to kiss you obviously wasnt meant to kiss you. especially since it sounded like it was awkward. it should feel right when you kiss that some one, like when i kiss my boyfriend, who ive been dating for over a year, i still get tingles in my stomach, my breathing becomes uneven, and its hard to concentrate on anything but him. if you dont get any kind feelings about the guy your kissing then you probably shouldnt be together. Oh yea, being the oddball in the group makes you special, boys like it when you havent done stuff all the way some times, you could find a guy who hasnt had his first kiss yet too.
there is no right way to kiss. and everybody has certain ways they liked to be kissed. if you do kiss some one its probably best if you didnt shove your tongue into their mouths or down their throats though.
here is a site i found (and go to myself) there is a lot of stuff on it that was helpful to me. and it can tell you ways to kiss:
http://www.coolnurse.com/frenchkiss.htm
hope i helped. (& sorry this is so long)
(Rating: 5) thanks so muchh =)