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well thers this guy ive liked for about 3 years now we started out flirting alot, then last year he actually asked me Out & we were togeather for like 1 day then he broke up with me at school with a stupid little note. but then ever since then all last skool year he would tell his friends that he liked me sooo much & that i was beautiful. & he would send me texts saying that he lliked me again & saying really sweet things. now this year, i think he likes me but its that he'l be sweet one day then he'l talk about another girl the next day. he constantly staring at me. & he textd me yesterday "i think one day we r gonna have sex" & he also told me tht he always wanted to lose his virginity with me & he regrets loosing it to some other girl.. im really confused because i LOVE this guy. i need help on wether he likes me or if he just wants sex.. also i want to know if thiers any thing i should do to attract him a littile more :) pls helpp
He seems extremely inconsistent, or maybe just confused about how you feel about him. Either way, this guy is playing with you, and you shouldn't trust him unless some time goes by and he proves to you that you can.
If it's any help, most guys that tell you they want sex when you aren't dating or in a relationship, well those guys usually just want sex.
Distancing yourself from this guy probably isn't a bad idea. If you really, however, feel like you want to give him a chance, maybe invite him to hang out with you sometime, or hint that he should ask you. Make it somewhere outdoors, and view his behavior. Don't let him get physical with you or have sex with him just yet. It may seem like a good idea at the time, but you should really make sure that he loves you like you do first.
On what you can do to attract him a little more: it already sounds like you are on his mind enough, just focus your time on yourself until you are sure he is mature enough to handle it.
(Rating: 5) rgnx for the help :)