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Q: Hey, i know this is like so many other questions but i really want an answer. ok so there is this boy who is really hot and seems really nice and cool. i know hes smart too. he rides my friends bus and her bus is in front of mine so i always go over and talk to her. well hes pretty good friends with her and will talk to me when we're talking and so like all 3 of us talk togther. He flirts with me and told my friend he likes me and thinks im hot and stuff too. I like him and he likes me the problem is we dont really know each other. thats the only time i see him in the day and its like for 5 min. max a know a bit about him but not really. if you know what i mean. i would really like to get to know him more. hes on another school on campus because hes not in my grade so i cant see him before class or anything either. what should i do??? my friend says i should come to her house because they're neighbors but what else? i dont know if he would want to go to the movies or sumthing w/me and my friend because he doesnt know anyone else in our group. i dont care if i hang with his friends but what should i do so i can hang out with him more!!! and how should i get him to hang with me like should i invite him or ask him to the movies with me? when u give me answers please tell me HOW to ask him or get him to ask me or whatever. im really attracted to him and def. what to see him more and get to know him better. i asked for his AIM but he already told me he's NEVER on and he isnt. Thanks you so much and i will rate EVERYONEs helpful posts!!! :D

Usually the guy makes the first move.
If hes not in your grade hes probably older right? If he dosent seem shy, hell make the first move when hes ready.
You should definately go over your friends house.
Maybe, you could sleepover one day so you could ride her bus with her. Then you could sit next to eachother and talk some more.
Just causally bring movies into conversations. Like "you know which movie looks so great? Feel the noise. Oh im dying to see that."
Or you could mention the weekend. Tell your friend "what r u doing this weekend? I have nothing to do. Im going to be bored out of my mind!"
you could get his cell number somehow (either ask him for it or ask his friend for it) and then you could get to know him over the phone. Also, get his AIM and facebook/myspace if he has. Just have casual conversaition and get to know him. If there is somthing there, it will work out.

Rating: 5

Thanks! That's really good advice and you have great suggestions!

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