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My favourite quote is 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you'.

Life really is a roller-coaster with it's ups and downs and varying speeds. Yet no matter how hard you try to stay on an even keel, something always comes along to kick you in the teeth and remind you just how fragile life is. We are all trying to live the best we know how and to get along together. So take time to appreciate those around you and tell them how much you love them occasionally. A smile and a kind word speaks volumes.



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I'm having a big party, and I want to invite all my friends, and most of their friends so everyone feels comfortable. A friend of mine, Fred, has a friend, Phil, who I asked out last year, not really serious, but he took it seriously and rejected me. We kinda lost touch, and I want to invite him to my party because I never really meant anything by it and I was never hurt. The issue is, I don't know if I should, cause I don't know if he's going to think that I still "want to go out with him", or whether he'd be uncomfortable at my party. What should I do? (link)
Quick answer - write him a little note explaining what you have just said here and then say you would really like it if he came to your party strictly as a friend and nothing more. That way he can make a decision for himself about how he would feel. Good luck.


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