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I'm having a big party, and I want to invite all my friends, and most of their friends so everyone feels comfortable. A friend of mine, Fred, has a friend, Phil, who I asked out last year, not really serious, but he took it seriously and rejected me. We kinda lost touch, and I want to invite him to my party because I never really meant anything by it and I was never hurt. The issue is, I don't know if I should, cause I don't know if he's going to think that I still "want to go out with him", or whether he'd be uncomfortable at my party. What should I do?
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If I were in your position, I'd just invite him. Then you can have a little catch up and if necessary, explain yourself to him. Make sure other people he knows will be there (Fred), so he won't be uncomfortable.
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Quick answer - write him a little note explaining what you have just said here and then say you would really like it if he came to your party strictly as a friend and nothing more. That way he can make a decision for himself about how he would feel. Good luck.
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