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Okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and everything is going really good.
but well we have been trying to kiss for the last week and well im ready for it and i told him i could kiss him but he said he wants to be the man...but evertime we are about to do it he backs off and we sit around joking about how we cant do it..
does it mean anything bad or....

It doesn't mean anything bad. Think about it. You are ready to kiss him, how do you know that he is ready to kiss you?

Try spending regular one on one time together - maybe not huge amounts of time, but it might be awkward for him to kiss around other people. Try to open up the possibility of kissing by becoming less shy with touching each other. Nothing pornographic, just flirt with him. Poke him playfully. Place your arm around him waist, or hold his hand. Give him hugs. This will make the whole leap from not touching you to kissing you a lot less weird for him (and possibly you as well). Remember to also enjoy time with him in other ways, and not turn kissing into an issue where he may feel pressured.

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