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Q: Haha jk I just needed a subject that would make people read this. here's the real problem-

okay well I went out this guy like a year ago and like a month later he broke up with me because his other friend liked me and him and his friends were like losing their friendships, and because he was always way to busy to have a girlfriend (that's what he said.)

but he never actually said he stopped liking me. so we went for like 3 months without really talking to each other.

then like 2 months after that we started flirting sooo much and you could just tell we liked each other, so we like hooked up and stuff and he was like oh maybe I'll want a girlfriend in the summer! and then the summer came and he was like I honestly don't want a girlfriend, but i still want to hang out with you so like we can still talk during the summer.

well I was SO angry because he totally like led me on and then said he didn't want a girlfriend so I didn't talk to him all summer and then when school started he asked me why i didn't talk to him and I said because I was sick of you wanting to be with me and then changing your mind and I just wanted to forget you. and he was like "ohh.. well I guess that's a good answer..."

and so anyways, now that we're in fully in school, we've starteed flirting a lot again!! I honestly have no idea what I should do because i still like him. he always makes my heart beat really fast and I think about him a lot but i just don't know what to do!! please help me!
Maybe YOU should ask him out. Maybe that's what he's been waiting for. And if he says no, then still be his friend. You should on though, also guys like it when your life revolves around them. He's just jerking you around to get you upset and hurt. Move on, but that doesn't mean let go.



What I meant was maybe you should move on.

i don't quite understand but thank you anyways!!

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