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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.

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so i have this "friend" let's say well call her 1

1 came over the other day & we we're on myspace and she was friends with this girl named kt & i've seen her myspace before & i thought she was pretty blahh blahh. couple weeks later she gets like a "make-over" or whatever the fuck she wants to call it, & she look's like a TOTALLY different person, like not even the same person.. and i know how to read comments and stuff nd her comment are hidden so i loook at her comments & she only has 192 and she's had a myspace since september 2006 & all her comments are about whoring.. so i know for a she is fake, and 1 was totally agreeing with me on it. so then i confronted "2" [ we'll call the "fake" 2 ] about her being fake .. and this is the conversation:

me: can i ask you a ?
me: i know you dnt know who i am but i hav a question about modeling
2: sure
2: ?
2: are you a fake? cause like i remember seeing your pictures a while ago and now i see them and they're completely different.. and your lookin pretty fake to me
2: uh nah not hardly l0l.
me: wats taht mean
2: that meansz no.
me: howcome you hide your old album then ..
me: cause they look completely diffrenet and people would catch on
2: bc tha picsz are old.
me: mmk so make a sign or wat are you going to make an excuse
2: l0l i kno "1" there with yu [: stupid little freshmen, don't bother meh
me: FAKE
me: no she left btw
2: haha nah
2: buh bye bytch
me: bye fake
me: ill report you to tom
2: haha kay you do that, and i'll photoshop picsz of yu naked


that's what happend the first time when 1 was over.
ok seriously if someone called you fake wouldn't you take a picture with a piece of paper saying you URL or something? not say bye bitch ot ill photoshop pictures of you naked i mean cmon can she get anymore fake?! .. then today [ august 22 ] "2" IMed me saying ..

2: uhm yu realize kait doesn..t think i..m a fake, and i qut that pic of yu naked done [: so keep runninq yur mouth
me: mmk thats illegal
2: now wat did yu say
me: thats illegal
2: and so isz harrasement
2: =]
me: mmk how am i harrasing you
me: yellings not illegal
2: callinq meh fake isz
me: cause you are
2: tryinq to qet meh in trouble for identity theft
2: isz harrasement
2: [which i..m not fake] btw.
me: how am i trying to get you introuble
2: by "i..m qunna report yu to tom"
2: yur a lil bytch, if yu have no life yu have to qet into other peoples.
me: you have no life to photoshop people naked
me: to bad i friggen didnt tell tom cause i forgot
2: fuck with meh, i drive i can track yu down, trust meh
2: keep pushinq meh miss kendall.
me: i know pople who can drive to
2: yu have no idea who yur fuckinq with.
me: alright ill let the cops know
2: haha can..t fiqht yur own battlesz huh?
2: where are yu qunna qet in life?
me: nope
2: i..m qunna lauqh when yur smart ass mouth qetsz yur face beat ihn [:
me: im guna laugh wehn you go to jail
2: i..m 17.
2: i won..t qo to jail.
2: and i have a rich daddy.
2: so haha i ain..t scared of shyt.
2: try aqain and keep sayinq i..m doinq identity theft.
2: see where yu end up.
2: peace.
me: thatd not wat im telling the cops
2: and i can qet yu for harrasement
2: qo do wat little 15 year oldsz do.
mfn xo princess: toodlesz.
me: im not harrasing you
me: you imed me first
2: uh did i not say bye?
me: smart ass
2: not so touqh that "1"z not there huh?
me: " 1"didnt do shit
2: 1: qhet how she said she had people that she knows that can drive
2: 1: yah im done with her.
1: i duhn need 13 yr old bullshit anymore
2: [: hahahaha
2: pussy ass bytch
2: i..m outtttt.
me: good
me: byeeeeeee
2: awh qo cry
me: mmk
2 signed off at 8:15:10 PM.

i'll show you what 1 said about me ..

1: qhet how she said she had people that she knows that can drive
1: but not her.
1: she cant FIGHT HER OWN BATTLES
1: yah im done with her.
1: i duhn need 13 yr old bullshit anymore

great friend ehh?!


so tell me what i should do?

am i wrong here?

or am i completely right?

help!

I think that both of you are acting really immature and that is middle school drama. Why do you care if she's a fake? If she is, oh well. It's none of your buisness and she's just a low life who would do such a thing. Ignore it even though it is highly annoying and pathetic, but it's her life. This whole thing about harrasing and going to jail.. well you're both over reacting. I don't think she cares about anyones opinions and she just wants to do what she feels like. You really had no right to IM her and just ask " Are you fake? " I'm sure you wouldn't want someone doing that to you. So like I said, ignore it and let her be. Be the bigger person and be mature about it and not pick fights over nothing.

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