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I'm imature. Let's say that first. Second, I laugh whenever I hear the words, balls or get in there and stuff liek that. I mean I kinda know what sex is, but not exactly. I'm NOT asking for you to tell me. I don't want to know its gross. The problem, my friends know what it means and they think it's cool. It's gross. My friend writes poems about sex. i want to know what to do! I hate it when they talk seriously about this stuff. What can I do?! HELP ASAP!!!!!!!

Well you're thirteen. YOU should/can be freaked out by it if you wan't to. You don't have to have it, not until you are good and ready, and obviously you are not ready. Just tell your friends, that it makes you uncomfortable when they write 'poems' about it, also, you could warn them that if a parent found it, they could be in big trouble. It may be inapropriate, since they are .. what 12-14 years old? Just explain to them, and if they continue to really bug you, tell someone, an adult maybe? a teacher?
Good luck!

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! :D
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