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Last time I was on here I asked a sex question and the Admin told me I couldn't ask it on this forum. Because of that I'm not sure if I will get an answer to this question but I need to ask anyway. I've no where else to turn.
I'm a 17/m and because of recent events I am at the crossroads of a potentially life changing decision. I'm a virgin. I've never been kissed or even so much as held hands. I've been on one date my whole life but I don't really count it because the girl didn't like me at all. I am an only child and live alone with my mother and father. I don't have many friends because I live in a small town and don't go to school or have a job (long story). I really never meet any girls for the same reason, but hopefully that will change when I start college in the winter. Anyway, my parents are leaving town in a few weeks and I have $200 in my bank account. I have been thinking of using this opportunity to hire and escort. I can't stand being a virgin anymore because I feel like a complete loser, but if the only sex I've ever had would be paid for I wouldn't exactly feel like the coolest guy ever either. I don't know what to do. Please help. (link)
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It is not a good idea to lose your virginity to an escort. It is a really lovely feeling to know that the person you give yourself to eventually is the person that truly cares about you. You sound like you have real issues with your self-confidence and it may be a good idea to find someone to help you build this up. There will most likely be a lot of information at your local library offering classes in things that you find interesting and once you have something in common with a girl, you could try and build up a friendship. You could also try to see a counsellor to talk to or your doctor who could advise you on where to get a little extra help. You are still very young and although not a lot of people will be brave enough to admit it, they too lost their virginity at an older age. I hope that I have made some sense to you and if I can help any more please let me know.
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I'm not sure why, but you made me smile. Thank you.
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