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Hey! I'm Andrea.. my cousin has a column here, DarkChocolate794.
I've been giving advice here for a long long time. I've been through more than you'll know. I've managed to stay normal thanks to Jesus.
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I have a problem saying thank you to people older then me..I don't know why it's not like I have a grudge or something it's just that it jsut doesn't come out.

I used to say thank you in school to everyone and the teachers everytime they hand me a peice of paper but now when people give me something the word thank you won't come out. =S

Liek as a treat, the teacher handed us candy and I couldnt' say thank you and it really slipped off the back of my mind

I really wanted to thank my mom for walking all the wya to the drug store to get me cough drops when i was sick but i dunno..the word just won't come out (link)
You know, if you say a word, any word too many times you forget what it means.

I know this happened to me, and I thought I was being impolite all the time when I really was greatful for things, I just didnt say it, tho I had said it so much in the past for like every little thing.

Its all a matter of remembering to say it, and once you remember, say it even if it really feels fake, or even if you just dont want to. It will become a habit soon enough. Im guessing we're all a little bit past the tying a string around your finger to remember something, so buy a ring that fits, and wear it all the time as a reminder. Once saying it is no problem, you can take the ring off, or if its cute, make a fashion statement and continue to wear it! It will become your signature piece everyone will remember you for.


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