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HEY!! U can call me Nikki Im from that little water state. Im fifteen and a sophmore. I can connect with most teens and their problems but also i think older people need to be open to advice from younger minds as well..so give us a chance. =] I like helping people and giving advice is the one the best ways to help. Ask me anything, i may not always have an answer but ill try. I put in thought and time on the question being asked, something id like people to also do for me. So tell me little pieces of your life and ill see if i can try and put them back together. ;]
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My friend's boyfriend is terrible. He smokes, drinks, does drugs. Basically, all the things she'd never do. And now we barely talk anymore and I don't know what to do. They've been together for a while now, but we've been friends 5 times longer. I try talking to her, but she pushes me away. How can I tell her that she can do so much better? What should I say?
Tell it to her straight. She'll appreciate it in the end. Tell her that her bf needs to clean up his act, because all his drinking, smoking, and drug use just aint cute. Then tell her she is better than what he does, and that she can make him change and that if he dont want to change than she deserves better. But you also have to understand that maybe she likes him just the way he is. Tell her that you feel like your friendship is kind of being pushed to the side, because of her relationship with her boyfriend. Tell what you think and what you feel.
(Rating: 4) Thanks! I'll use the clean up his act part, because he really needs it!