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mkay. i don't think is going to be long but basically, my boyfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago.
the day after i figure out that he liked another girl when me and him were starting to have problems, and was going to dump me either way. he told me that the people who told me were lying but i heard it from his best friend so i don't know how that works out.
anyways. i still like him for some reason. i don't want to, i just do. i told him this once before but he told me he doesn't think of me that way anymore. i want him too, but he doesn't.
now, i find out that one of my friend's likes him and shes trying to go somewhere with him. which sucks because i'm still not over him.
what should i do? (link)
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Hey, I understand how you're feeling. You like him but the feeling isn't mutual. I know you're feeling like shit now and all, but you know that we can't force people to like us back. You should move on.
If you don't like it that your friend likes him, then don't get yourself involved in their business at all. Stay out of everything that goes on between your friend and him. Your friend has a right to do what she wants to do, and I know that sucks. But life is like this, it gets bitchy at times. You shouldn't brood over this matter because seriously, nothing good is gonna come out of dwelling on it.
Go out and occupy yourself. Heck care bout them. Go and exercise, play, talk to your other friends. If you really feel very horrible, write it out in a diary. Cry and let yourself wallow a little bit and then get back on your feet again. Learn to deal with frustration and sadness.
The reason why you're feeling so sucky is cos you refuse to let go. Why make yourself miserable? What good is there in holding on when it's making you feel so bad? Just let it go, you'll feel better if you stop hanging on.
Stop thinking bout it already. Occupy yourself. Force yourself to stop thinking bout the issue. I know that this is really hard to do cos I've been thru the same thing as you have. Everyone surely has at some point in the life. But do tell yourself that life is like this, it's full of ups and downs. For now, it's just a down part but you are the only one who can help yourself get over this.
Don't be sad =)
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