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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
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I'm 14 years old, going to be a freshman at my highschool next year. I've never made out. I've been going out with this guy for about a month. I've had previous relationships, 2 to be exact, that lasted a really long time and we never did anything because eh... basically the guys were pussys. I broke up with them. I'm the type of girl that likes outgoing guys that arent shy. Everytime I go out with someone they seem like that and they become shy and annoying and it just bothers me so much now. Well my current boyfriend, I dont know... He's only shy when we are with my friends and that's understandable I guess. But I seem to have lost interest in him because so far we have gotten together with other people and it's been awkward because he is acting shy. I'm basing the next time I see him [which we will be alone] to see how it is between us and if it's bad i plan to break up with him. However, the next time we're going to see eachother, he was talking about making out with me [trying it out] he knows that I havent done it before and he has done it alot. I'm nervous in a way. I want to do it but then I dont. I think that everytime the guy is making the move I just basically dont want to. I dont know why my previous boyfriends didnt make the move but when I knew I couldnt have it, I wanted to do it. Now that I know I could do it, I dont want to? I make no sense. I don't know what to do. I dont even know what Im asking... Well basically, what should I do?
Give your current boyfriend some time to get comftrable around you. I don't think you really know what you want. You broke up with your ex boyfriends because they didn't make any moves on you, but now you're not so sure about your current boyfriend because he will. It doesn't really make sense but I know what you mean. If he always acts shy around your friends, maybe you should talk to him about it and see why? If he doesn't always hang out with them, it's understandable. If you're not ready to kiss him yet, don't. Don't rush anything and if you're waiting for the right moment, let it happen. Maybe if you both are having a good time and you're feeling more comftrable, then go for it but just be patient and don't rush anything.
(Rating: 5) That wasnt the only reason I broke up with them. Trust me. One was because he wasnt a good boyfriend at all and totally ignored me. The other I barely saw. Thanks though :D