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ok so there is this guy i've liked for 2 years but he doesn't like me back (he DID but i blew him of) , and there is no way he'll ever like me again. how do i get over him??? cause i'm really in love with him and it hurts so badly. (link)
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i know exactly what ur going through. for the longest time ive liked my friend and its the hardest thing even to deal with. i cried so much about him i even thought about suicide. i wished for so long that he would feel the same way about me but he didnt he just saw me as a friend but he was my everything. and i could bear it and it was eating me up inside for the longest time. the only way to get over him and ive had to go through so much pain to realize this is by letting go of all hope that he ever will like you. only then can you see him as just a friend. no matter what he does just continue to tell yourself that he doesnt see you that way. make yourself believe it. its not your fault that he doesnt love you. you cant control how he feels and you have to accept that its for the best. everything that happens in life is a learning experiance. the more pain we go through the stronger we become and you have to know that happiness can only come from inside of you. no one can make you happy except yourself. once you realize that you dont need anyone to make you happy you can build an inner strength that is so unshakeable that no one can break down. then no matter what happens nothing will ever be able to destroy your peace of mind. its gonna take a while for all of this you have to believe it and soon you will see yourself get over him. when i got over my friend it felt so good that i could live without the pain. i am so proud of myslef and i know that you can do it to. once you are over it you will be able to forgive yourslef and the world and look forward to life with a smile. not a fake smile but a real smile that will allow you to help your friends see life in the same way. life is beautiful, it truly is, you may not see it yet but i know what you're feeling right now. and im sorry that its so painful but in the end itll all be better. good luck in this and in your entire life ahead.
SAM 14.f
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