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My favourite quote is 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you'.

Life really is a roller-coaster with it's ups and downs and varying speeds. Yet no matter how hard you try to stay on an even keel, something always comes along to kick you in the teeth and remind you just how fragile life is. We are all trying to live the best we know how and to get along together. So take time to appreciate those around you and tell them how much you love them occasionally. A smile and a kind word speaks volumes.



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Hi i was wondering,for 14 year olds...what would be better?..oral sex or regular sex?...also for oral would it be better for the girl to do the guy first or the guy to do the girl first..or would it be better for both to do it at the sametime because i know that someone might not feel like doing something after orgasming..also is it better for a guy to wear a condom for oral or not?

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Sex at 14 is really not a very good idea. You may not be able to cope emotionally or physically with the reponsibilities that come with sex. For example - pregnancy, STDs, VDs, and all the emotional packaging that you will experience. You will regret losing your virginity at such a young age one day, especially if it all goes wrong and you end up pregnant or with AIDS. Try a bit of research about such consequences before having sex and if you must go ahead, please use all the protection you can. All the best.


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