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okay so my friend..umm,bob[not really]tells me alot of things.if she tells me something about my friend fred[not really]thats like mean or something i tell fred what bob said.and i have no idea but i think bob is begining to know what im doing.i know its bad that im doing this:telling fred all the things that bob says nagitivly about her but i dont know,its just hard.we[me and fred]have been close for alot longing than me and bob have so i guess i just feel like i should tell her everything,including the things about her being mean or that bob just plain doesnt like her.and i want to agree with bob but at the same time i dont want to because of freds case.i know its gonna end bad.how do i change that from happening?.

Keep your mouth shut!!!!

Stop the gossiping!!!!

Stop hurting people by telling them what others say!!!

All you are doing is instigating trouble for everyone and making a loud-mouthed fool out of yourself to the point no one will ever tell you anything ever again in confidence and you will end up without any friends-- PERIOD!

People like you are the same people that start rumors and hurt and even damage people for life.

Keep your mouth shut and suck on a lollipop instead!

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(Rating: 1) okay..i dont even know you and youre getting mad.thanks for the advice but im not gossiping,i dont wanna keep things that are being said bad about my best friend away from her.
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