Occupation:author, editor, freelance writer and advice columnist
Member Since:April 10, 2007
Last Update:January 10, 2008
I'm psychic and a sociologist, and combined with the many different professions I've had, husbands, friends and family, and my share of bad neighbors too, gives me the knowledge and experience to cast new light on many old problems that we all face. Ask questions about anything you want and need answers to: Boyfriend or husband, school, sex, decorating, careers and career changes, family and friends, pets, diets and health and illnesses, finances, moving and relocating, divorce or marriage, and the nosey problem neighbor. -- Ask JR
advice(Rating: 5) Thank you SO much! You can never know how much you helped me! I have come back to the site to help other people like you have helped me.
(Rating: 5) thank u! i forgot about advicenators lol
(Rating: 5) i'm so sorry about your daughter. thank you for taking the time to respond to this. i hope the best for you ♥
(Rating: 5) he moved from oregon and doesnt have his license yet b/c his stepdad took it before he went to go live with his dad and we dont go to the same school, he lives about 20 minutes away but thankyou!
(Rating: 5) thnx for the sarcasm
(Rating: 5) Thanks! ^.^
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(Rating: 5) thanks...i have a ovaly heart shaped nogin lol
(Rating: 4) Thanks, but the version I'm looking for isn't actually on the soundtrack.
(Rating: 2) Thankz for trying but i already saw these.
(Rating: 5) thanks ill try some of those. And its kinda funny because we use to send letter back and foth to eachoher and we sent so many we always had trouble finding good or funny ones cuase we had sen them all. thanks for the advice
(Rating: 5) i have two male cousins, but they are both several years younger than me & don't even know my screen name. thanks for your help! does this boy like me? why won't he stop? is there ANYTHING else you can find out about him? - thank you SO much for your help. i really love you JR
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much.
(Rating: 5) omg no please, no need to apologize i really really appreciate your insight more than anyone else's on the site because you are a psychic. he is in finland now so i won't see him for the rest of the remaining few days of school. perhaps things will resume in september. thank you for all your help with this boy. i dont know if i still like him! he went out with this girl, alex, last year but she moved & now i am very turned off because he has had a girlfriend & i haven't had a real boyfriend yet. thanks again! ♥
(Rating: 5) Ok, thank you so much for the quick additional response. You helped a lot. :)
(Rating: 5) That sounds like a lot of good advice. Thanks for taking the time. I've pretty much tried everything growing up except the group therapy sessions... But I don't know. I guess it's a lot more complicated than that. I just need someone to talk to, someone who actualy cares... A friend I guess. Thanks
(Rating: 5) THANKS SO MUCH! how long has he liked me? will we ever go out or am i wasting my time?
(Rating: 5) yes, one is a guy :]
(Rating: 5) Thank you! I did end up wearing whatever I wanted to wear, and everyone loved what I wore.
(Rating: 5) thanks so much!!! i'm a bit nervous about talking to them about it, i believe a good friend doesnt judge, and i dont want them to be scared away from telling me what they do because if they dont tell me, i wont be in on a big part of their lives. but ya thanks again, yours was the best answer
(Rating: 5) Thanks!
(Rating: 5) seriously he's in north america and i'm in east europe now....i don't know what to do... cause right now we barely talk and he makes it seem like i don't cross his mind or he is a busy bee or stuff like that (he thinks he needs to compete with me since i juggle my friends... and it's not that it's just that i come from a conservative family and i can't do what i want so i have to organize my time and stuff so they don't find out about the "wild" me) i hinted to him that i was to go see who my parents set me up with at the beginning but since then every time i log on msn (since thats our #1 communication method) he logs of or he act busy... i can't send him an email because i don't trust who he'll show it too and in the same time i know he won't respond.... i am confused..... he used to bring out the wilder more free side of me... now that i am back i feel restrained and more conservative... don't get me wrong i like my new fiance but i still don't know the guy yet! :S
(Rating: 5) Thanks! That was a lot of info
(Rating: 5) You have listed some great dishes! As for planning for a certain region of the U.S... I can't. The people will be coming from all over, in theory. This makes your list all the better. :)
(Rating: 3) I never implied that it wasn't original or that the other song wasn't copying theirs.
(Rating: 4) Thanks for your thoughts. It was useful to hear a different opinion, but in the end we went with the navy and black as anything brighter was more casual, and it was definitely the right decesion based on what other people wore. But you are right: I wouldn't normally wear very dark colours to a wedding unless we were told there was no dress code. Thanks.
(Rating: 5) seriously i've asked this question so many different times, so many different ways, and never gotten the answer i wanted. your advice helped tremendously, thank yo so much!
(Rating: 5) thanks ~and when do you think is the youngest possible
(Rating: 4) So do you think I should not met him on saturday?? We were suppose to met and talk..
(Rating: 5) Thanks that is good to know its really rare. Anywa I dont have one I got it checked. They think its a sist SP?. I dunno though, it seems like its the inner ear but they also said there was like some retraction in my ear drum thats not in my right ear but its ok also since i had a cold before THANKS
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much.. You helped a lot.
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice, using a scar cream sounds like a good idea. I may have made my situation sound worse than it actually is; I have good skin in general but I've been super stressed lately and have started to pick at pimples- and I never used to break out in that area...it's all stress-related. But anyway, it's a good idea to see a dermatologist-- I think a good cream should help out (and of course, stopping the habit of touching the pimples). Thanks again!
(Rating: 4) thankz 4 the comment. i thik he will wait for me. but idk i guess i will only see.
(Rating: 5) "You could have a cyst or tumor on an ovary causing the severe cramps, or other gyno problems." That seriously freaked me out, and if I have a tumor, does that mean I won't be able to have kids!? =(
(Rating: 5) thank you
(Rating: 2) that`s not what i meant. && HOW RUDE
(Rating: 5) yea well actually you're right he was kind of both. see the thing is he was very confused about his sexuality for a long time which obviously wasnt helping the situation. then he told me that he was sure that he is strait but just doesnt like me like that and doesnt want to hurt me like he hurt his ex. YAY IM FREE THIS IS SO GREAT!!!! thanx =)
(Rating: 5) thank you =]
(Rating: 3) my friend likes a guy that i just got over. i liked that guy for a long time. none of us dated him or anything. i feel like i sorta claimed him. i know that theres no such thing as claiming a guy if you never went out, but i feel like i "made my mark". i would talk to my friend about how i feel about this, but i just got a boyfriend yesterday((my first)). he was my friend, who apparently liked me. i dont think i like my boyfriend as more than a friend. he loves me. i feel like i would be really mean to dump him after two days. so i have two problems, mixed into one big mess.
(Rating: 5) yeah thats true. thanks
(Rating: 5) noo yes i liked ur answer but im not giving him a note that is gayy.. thanks
(Rating: 5) awwww superr cute!! thank youu
(Rating: 5) THANKS!
(Rating: 5) I thank you for the advice I just wish things were simpler to do like when we say them. Thanks again. It really opened my eyes.
(Rating: 5) thanks:D
(Rating: 1) uh yah thanks ?
(Rating: 5) ok. thanks.
(Rating: 5) It's not me giving gifts to buy their friendship, it's gifts throughout our entire friendship which was since we were little kids. All these people I've known all my life, and I know are changing as years go by. Also, most do earn my trust because these friendships that I have with them last for a very long time and they randomly betray me. It's life, I know. But thank you for your answer. :)
(Rating: 5) Ok, thank you for your opinion!
(Rating: 4) Okay. Know any websites?
(Rating: 4) thanks and i did mention my age. it's at the top =) 13/f. lol thanks though!!!
(Rating: 5) Thank you <3. I will do that! I love your advice column!
(Rating: 5) ok thanks for the extra help Also i'm talking about IMVU. it says in the question title lol
(Rating: 4) Thanks for the suggestions, but I am unable to do some of those. I added additional info if you have any other suggestions.
(Rating: 3) your answer was alittle hard to fellow. i was friends with sandy but we always fought cause we always disagree on things. it was late at night when we text each other, i dont care that they hang out, i just dont like it that sandy ignor Jane all night it was rude. but Jane can do anything she wants i dont mind. what do you mean? (you're making a mountain out of a mole hill.)
(Rating: 4) thank you so much =)
(Rating: 5) thanks :)
(Rating: 5) thank you so very much!! =]
(Rating: 1) okay..i dont even know you and youre getting mad.thanks for the advice but im not gossiping,i dont wanna keep things that are being said bad about my best friend away from her.
(Rating: 5) ohh,goodness.thank you.=]]
(Rating: 5) thank you tons!! you helped the most..
(Rating: 5) thankiess
(Rating: 5) such a huge help...thxs a bunch<3EAS
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much, I really appreciate the advice. My parents are still married, although it's a shaky situation-- and when i bring the whole shopping thing to her attention, she denies it. I need to sit down with her and really tell her how I feel.
(Rating: 5) thank you , by the way you were right , my friend was just talking to him and he said he liked her , and they were talking about me and he said he thought of me as like a best friend.and ps im 14 so idk if youd consider that really young haha
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the Mame advice
(Rating: 5) Hey thanks for the advice I loved it!
(Rating: 1) ok thats not even why my myspace name is that. im not confused about that.
(Rating: 2) first off "sweetie" wtf are you talking bout hes not a fucking child preditor. he gave me proof that hes real, and plus wtf...i PERSONALLY know his cousin that lives here, so dont tell me his a fcking like 45 yr old trying to rape YOU never talked to him. Rating changed by L2 moderator. ass. >:[
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(Rating: 5) hey thanks great advice you gave me the best one! thanks for taking the time and writing that.. you really helped me
(Rating: 5) Thank you my friend died in my arms a couple days ago and i got hit by a car and hes not my bf yet but we love eachother too dearly and he seems to like yelling at me since i said that i haven't spoken to him in awhile.. If you have a myspace idk if you do but you can add me http://www.myspace.com/im_dying_of_atelophobia
(Rating: 3) Thankyou very much for your advice I appreciate it and I will try it... but honestly I don't think it's appropriate that you put him down like that. To be honest I can't believe you just did that. You don't know me, you don't know him, that's just plain rude. Are you confident?? Are you 'arrogent' too?? Rude?? Hmm... think about it. Rating changed by L2 mod
(Rating: 5) hey thank you helped alot =]