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if the man does drugs, but the woman doesnt and takes care of herself when pregnant, can the baby have some form of development problem?

Yes.

Just because the mother is drug-free and healthy with a healthy egg, the father that does drugs can have unhealthy sperm, deformed sperm, and fertilize a healthy egg resulting in a deformed fetus.

Drugs are the number one cause of birth defects whether physically visable or invisable like heart defects, mental defects, etc.

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