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Well in my school, most of the guys go after the bigger chested and gelled hair kind of girls. Anyways thats deff not me. Lol i'm a tiny girl 4'9" small chestt and 13. I have a boyfriend right. He's nice and great and everything but idk. I've asked him why he likes me and he told me because "i'm special to him" What is that suppose to mean? So mostly looking for guys comments but girls are okay too, why do boys like girls other then physical appearance? && what do boys like in personality? just wondering and thankkss :]

Being 13 says it all. What you're wondering and going through and living today-- won't be that way at age 15, or 16-18.

13 year old boys are just discovering the opposite sex and their own sexuality. They are obssessed with the stero-typed girl like pin-ups in magazines. It's natural.

Don't worry about it. And the best thing about being 4'9" and small busted is, when you get older and gravity takes hold-- your bust won't surcumb to it and still be perky, while bigger busted woman will hang to their knees!!!

As far as personality goes, each person is different just as you are. What do you like in a boy? Then hang with boys that like the same in a girl. Simple. Petite girls are as beautiful, if not more than well-developed. Usually that's all they have going for them.

And, be yourself. Don't get into this trying to be what you think a boy likes because sooner or later, it comes back to bite you. No one can keep a facade up for long.

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