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Yesterday, I went to the mall with my Mom. I found a really cute skirt, and a top. When I tried it on, my mom insisted that "they were too tight." This happens ALL the time when we go shopping. Every time I try something on, my mom says, "No, its too tight" or "I think you need a bigger size," when I really don't. Something could fit just fine, and she would still insist that it is too small.
So the other day, I started crying, because she never likes ANYTHING that I try on. Then she asked me what was wrong, and I said, "Apparently I'm fat!" And she goes, "Oh no, you're not fat. The clothes just run small."
Mind you, I am a pants size 0, and I weigh 88 pounds. When I was younger, I used to be kind of chubby. I don't know why my mom does this- I'm trying to decide if it's because I really do look fat, or if its because she thinks I look good and doesn't want me to wear tight/revealing clothes. I am very upset, and lately I've been feeling like I don't want to eat. I decided to give up candy, and I fear becoming anorexic. Yet my mom, (who is not thin) continues to encourage me to eat candy.
Should I say something the next time she does this? I am getting really pissed off, and I feel like shouting, "You're just jealous because I'm not fat like you!" at her. (link)
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What?! Isn't size 0 supposed to be thin? I dunno bout the way size is measured in your country cos over here they go by S,M,L. But from what I know, shouldnt a size 0 be very small?
You're thin and you know it. I doubt your mum thinks you're fat. And NO, you shouldn't be telling your mum that you're not fat like her. That's just plain mean cos I really see no evil intention coming from her.
Parents are always wanting their kids to wear looser clothes, I dunno why, but prolly it's cos they dun wan you to feel uncomfortable in tight clothes or they're just being protective bout you showing your body. I think you're thinking too much. She offers you candies just because she wants to share them with you, it has nothing to do with her wanting to make you fat. That's really out of the point.
You are of such a small size , how can you ever be fat? I seriously dun think your mum is jealous of you. I dun feel any evil vibes enamating from your mum.
She's your mum, my dear girl, she's not some messed up psycho. She wants the best for you : eg. she wants you to feel comfortable in your clothes, and she wants you to enjoy nice little things like sweets and chocolates. Hell I'd give anything for a nice mum like that.
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Rating: 5
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Agh, haha, shes not that nice. But thanks anyways!
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