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Q: 17/F
ok, so i just recently broke it off with my boyfriend of a year and a half and it ended well until he said some s**t that really got to me and i was tired of nein hurrt so i want nothing to do with him.. i think. my thing is, once you hurt me my guard is up and itll take a lot for it to go back down.. then my best friend(a guy) and i have not hung out in a while so were catchin up on old times but a couple nights i had a dream that my best friend and i "did some things" that i never EVER had a thought about doin with him.. i know im starting to get feeling for him n the dream didnt help at all n i kno hes crushed on me before but i dont know what to do. i dont want a relationship right now AND him and my ex are pretty good friends now... what do i do?! please tell me something, sorry its so long
well the best thing to do is, make sure he still likes you and that your feelings are secure. if you dont want a relationship right now then just play it cool for a while its always fun to be single because that way when you get in to a relationship you realize how much you've missed it and it will last longer...get my drift :)!
and if your ex has a problem with it then let him say something i mean after all it is his fault you guys arnt talking anymore. just go slowly on this i mean if you hook up or are flirting with someone else and all you can think baout is your bestfriend then its an obvious anwser! and about your dream it dosnt really mean anything i have the mall the time with people i wouldnt imagine it was probably just casue you were with hi mand hadnt been in a very long time.

thanks a bunch ;)

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cheney232
ok lets see well my name is
Shenaye and im 16 years old.my life is'nt perfect but then again not alot of peoples are.i guess you can say i care about things way to much but i just like to say im sensitive. I'm very emotionally attached to people but I rather love then never know the feeling. I love giving people advice, I learn to listen to people's problem's more and more each day, My friends say I'm really good at it. It may not always be right but at least its something to fall back on if nothing else works right? anyways I've been through alot more in my life then alot of people can say they have: family,love,friends,abuse,drugs,suicicde attempts. and many more I dont like to really talk about it but I know its made me a way stronger person then I once was.
My friends are my life you mess with them i'llpull an operation beatdown on you

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