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OK, onne of my closest bffl's is getting on my last nerves. She's always saying that she is getting more guys than me. GRRRRR, its driving me nuts. Just because she has a bigger chest than I do and atracts older guys, doesnt mean she gets more guys than i do, right? I dont know, all i know is that im tired of her always bragging. If she wants to act like a slut and bitch , fine. But what should I do about the problem. I DONT KNOW IF I CAN TAKE ANYMORE. Can someone PLEASE help me?!?!?!?!?!
Friendship should never be about guys.
Never!
If she says that to you,
tell her that is fine with you,
because you wouldnt want to be in a relationship wiht a guy if he only likes your chest.
Right? I know this could bug me too, I know a person like this too. It is SO annoying. A lot of the time when people call themselfs 'sluts','whores',, etc its because they wish they could be. They wish they had the body, or they do have the body and they like it,
tell her how you feel. Make it clear to her, that you dont want a friendship thats a competition between guys, and tell her you dont care if she has a "bigger chest" looks arent everything. If shes giong to be a slut, what kind of guys do you think she is going to attract right? If she doesnt listen, just end the friendship. I know thats abrupt and rather..frank, but if all else fails, you dont have to be her friend.
Hope I helped
(Rating: 4) Listen, I love your advice, but ive know her for a long time, and i dont my friendship with her. Besides, i cant even stand up to her. SHE'S BIGGER THAN ME IN STRENGTH!