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Q: well, its like this i have been best friends with my friend all my life.im going out with my boyfriend now and she doesnt like him.she wont tell me why she doesnt like him either.she made me choose between them and i picked her because your best friend will always be there and your boyfriend might not.anyways,i broke up with my boyfriend and he was defastated and then i started crying because i couldnt believe i was actually breaking his heart.i told my best friend i picked her and the only thing she said to me was good.i kept bumping into him and i knew staight away he was still hurting inside.but about two weeks later i saw him in the shop and i went over to him to ask him was he ok he couldnt even look at me.i said to him that i made a big mistake and i was really sorry.that night he rang me asking me did i want to get back together so we did.
i told my best friend when i went back to school and she got really bitchy with me and said whatever go ruin your life.i left it and just started talking about something else.now if i even mention his name she starts shouting at me saying he is such a freak why on earth would i go out with him.he isnt a freak god no.
ok my question is long but what should i do my best friend is being really mean to my boyfriend and i.if you have any advice for me please give it.13/f
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so maybe your friend knows something about him thats you dont, maybe try asking her about it you may find something shocking out!
and i as for your bf what does he think of her?rememeber what you said your friends are alwasy there for you boys come and go and at your age i wouldnt worry to much about it ,youll be fine :)

Rating: 5

thanks for the advice.my bf thinks my friend is really nice.

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ok lets see well my name is
Shenaye and im 16 years old.my life is'nt perfect but then again not alot of peoples are.i guess you can say i care about things way to much but i just like to say im sensitive. I'm very emotionally attached to people but I rather love then never know the feeling. I love giving people advice, I learn to listen to people's problem's more and more each day, My friends say I'm really good at it. It may not always be right but at least its something to fall back on if nothing else works right? anyways I've been through alot more in my life then alot of people can say they have: family,love,friends,abuse,drugs,suicicde attempts. and many more I dont like to really talk about it but I know its made me a way stronger person then I once was.
My friends are my life you mess with them i'llpull an operation beatdown on you