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Well I have a great bf, and I love him a ton. My best friend keeps saying that I never talk to him, and she says I know nothing about him. I talk to him on the phone every night, and in school we sit next to eachother. So today walking out of a class my best friend is like ask him how he did on the test, cuz u guys never talk. And I told her that I didn't need her help talking to my bf!! And she should stay out of it. She kind of got annoyed but we both let it go. But she keeps doing it!!! She says she talks to him more than I do. I guess they talk a lot too. But I talked to my bf about it and he was like well yah me and her do kind of talk more, but I talk to you enough. And then he said I guess me and her talk more because I don't have to worry about what to say when I am talking to her. And I Dont know what he meant by that!!! Do you guys think that I was being too harsh on my best friend?? And what did my bf mean by what he said!???

Thanks a ton.

I don't think you were too harsh with your best friend. I mean, it was getting to the point that she was telling you how and what to do with your boyfriend and she should stay out of it. You did the right thing about telling her how you feel and also telling your boyfriend about the situation. When he said that he talks more to her because he doesnt have to worry about what to say, he meant that with you, since he likes you so much he doesnt want to say something stupid that will get you upset at him, you know? Like, he just cares about you more and doesnt want to lose you, and there's nothing wrong with that! :)

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(Rating: 5) thankss yah that makes sense

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