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Q: Get ready for this one, it might be a bit long.

Okay well my boyfriend and I had plans for today to get together so he could meet my cousin. Instead he gets drunk, calls me telling me that he can't come over but he wants me at his friends house to hang out at a party with him, then proceeds to tell me that I cannot bring my cousin who I never see. When I tell him no I can't just leave my cousin here he goes on saying oh well there are plenty of hott girls here who want to take their clothes off. Then I just tell him I was hanging up and he didn't even say just kidding or try to stop me he simply says k bye. That really got to me and I messaged him on myspace saying how he treated me was really wrong. He just replied back by saying soooo many b**ches so little time then he says where is the ky (as in the lubricant) G** Da** it.

So what I want to know is how do I let him know what he is doing to me is making me have suicidal thoughts. He really is a great boyfriend when he isn't drunk so I don't plan on breaking up with him. But how do I just let him know what he does hurts me.
He gets drunk? If I were you, I would break up with him! He could get you in trouble many times, and make you want to commit suicide! Tell your parents and/or friends about your suicidal thoughts. The "hott girls" are, hopefully, just his imagination. BREAK UP WITH HIM!
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Miss Anonymous

that wasn't what i was asking and i already stated that i was not going to break up with him and no he wont get me in trouble because we are old enough to drink

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Hey everybody! I love giving advice so ask away! My favorite quote is, "You laugh at me because I'm different, but I laugh at you because we are all the same." That quote discribes me a lot! I also like "Live Love Laugh!" Anyways, I had a website (misshelp.site.with.us) but it was deleted. When I found this site, someone took the name already! So I used my sister site's name. If y'all know me, y'all know my advice is great. So, ask away!

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