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Life really is a roller-coaster with it's ups and downs and varying speeds. Yet no matter how hard you try to stay on an even keel, something always comes along to kick you in the teeth and remind you just how fragile life is. We are all trying to live the best we know how and to get along together. So take time to appreciate those around you and tell them how much you love them occasionally. A smile and a kind word speaks volumes.
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Well me and my boyfriend have tried having babies and every time it ends in a death so we gave up trying and I just found out I'm pregnet again (this would be the4th time we lose a baby if it dies) I want to be happy but its hard because of the past and I know he is going to feel the same way how do I tell him? (link)
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This really is a very tough time for the both of you. Losing a baby is one of the worst things I have had to deal with, and facing it for a fourth time must be hell. You need to be honest with him about your feelings and give him time to have his say. Then the both of you should go to the doctor/hospital and ask to be monitored closely because of your past history. Should you sadly lose this baby too demand that someone looks into your case to try and find an answer. The doctors may well be able to give you some guidance or clues. Unfortunately, sometimes there may be no answer and it is just down to bad luck and mother nature. I wish you all the very best for a successful pregnancy this time, but if it all goes wrong again, you will need to give yourself time to grieve before trying again. If you are offered counselling please take it, it will help. My prayers and heartfelt good wishes go to you all.
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Thanks it is such a hard thing to deal with and you answered my question the way I wanted to hear it.
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