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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
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ok well about 5 months ago i was going out with some guy named jason whom i really liked so much but we broke up because he started acting wierd...anyways well while we were still dating we would have so much fun and have good talks and stuff and i would tell my friend isabel all about it. she always would instigate and tell me that he probably used the same cheezy lines with everygirl and then it turns out that she likes him now and they keep on kissing each other and shes always telling me about it like if i actually wanted 2 know!! it really bothers me and i feel that she is so dumb cuz shes all talkin lemme say shit about him and now shes practically going out with him too!!
today we were in p.e. and she kept on playinq around and she hit me with a soda bottle in my face so i got mad and i socked her so hard on her head and she qot like really serious and damn im telling you it felt good! hahaha
well the thing is that my other friend told me that she kissed him 10 times today and i know for a fact shes going to be all rubbing it in my face tomorrow even tho she knows that i really liked him! plz help me!wut do i do when she tells me??what can i do to react in a calm way&pretend that it dosent bother me?..do i even pretend or just straight out tell her 2 shut da fliick up&stop being such a hoe-cak3?!plz help me friiends are so important to me like more than a guy but is she really supposed to be considered a friend after what she did?[[and i would understand if she REALLY REALLY liked him but she plays around with everyone like that even her cousins!..yez she macked on her cousin too just so he wouldnt go out with me!!]] thx in advance=]
First off, she isn't a real friend. When she kept telling you negative things about Jason while you guys were still going out, she liked him back then too and she probablly wanted you both to break up. Now that she got what she wanted all along, she's taking her chances with him. She loves making you mad and making you jelous and she can see that it's really bugging you. That's exactly the reason that she keeps on bringing it up just to see how you would react. If she rubs it in your face again, don't call her a stupid hoe-cak3 or anything like that. Be more mature about it because you're better than that. You don't have to pretend that it doesn't bother you, but if SHOULDN'T bother you anyways. I know that you really liked the kid but things between you guys are over and you need to accept that and finally move on. Of course you're still going to get jelous and such and it's completley normal, but don't let it get to you. When she tells you that they kissed again just say something like aw, how cute, giggle, and walk away =] When she keeps talking about him, don't let her see that you're bothered and if she won't shut up, then you tell her to shut the fu@k up. Go out and meet new guys. Flirt, have fun. You don't have to be stuck on ONE guy and an immature "friend".
& it's very gross that she kissed her cousins.
(Rating: 5) lol yes it is!
well thx i know your riqht!=]