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16/f

alright me and my friend, dustin, have been friends forever. and like yeah we fool around.. we're kinda each others rebound.

well long story short.. tonight he came over.. and i figured he wanted something.. boy was i right.

at first he said he didnt want anything... and then night went on, we watched a movie and fooled around.. well.. then things started getting hot and heavy and he asked if i had condoms.. i said yea. well yeah i may have wanted it for a long time but it felt wrong because i was cheated on and didnt wanna get screwed over.

also i think that sex shouldnt be the only thing involved in a relationship.. it shouldnt matter. to me its the most distant thing in a relationship.. i guess what im trying to say is that i have morals.

but like did i make the right decision or was that his way of telling me he wants to be with me or something?
i need serious answers.. please and thanks =]

If you didn't actually sleep with him, then I'm sure it wasn't so bad. However, where you went wrong was when you said you DID have condoms. I know, you were probably all caught up in the moment-but, you shouldn't have said it. At least you had your morals, otherwise you would probably have regretted this. (In other words, if you did sleep with him, you probably would've regretted it.)

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