about

so live like you mean it,

love til you feel it

it's all that we need in our lives.

so stand on the edge with me,

hold back your fear and see

nothing is real til it's gone.

& hold on before it's too late,

well run til we leave this behind.

don't fall just be who you are,

it's all that we need in our lives.

♥ ♥ ♥





i'm britney. i'm seventeen, and just got out of a long term relationship. :( i'm here to give advice whether you use it or not. anything else, just leave in my inbox.

advice

Well im only 14 as you can tell.
I want a baby because they are soo adoriable.
I have a boyfriend we have had protected sex a few times already.
And would do it again.
We have been together for 2 years.
I love him and he loves me.
He is 3 years older.
My parents know and have known his family our whole lives, blah blah blah blah blahh.
So i keep telling him how much i want one but like he says i know you do but i am not ready to be a father and think about how much it would hurt and we dont have enough money.
So i need someone to try and convince me not to want one.
Because you have no idea how badly i want one.
Please help :\

OMG. I was in the same situation as you. I'm fourteen and my boyfriend is 17. We think about how AMAZING having a child would be, and stuff, but really it isn't anything amazing at our age. Money, school, everything will change. Him and I even added everything we'd need (money wise.) and the cost is SO MUCH. I know you want one now, and I did before too, but believe me it's not something you're ready for yet. Imagine having a baby and it not being able to have a good life, because you don't have enough money. Yeah, that sucks. ]: I'm sorry though. But think twice.

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(Rating: 5) thank youu :)

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