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OK me again?i like argue with people over the "N" word.especially african american men.They feel the word is alright and i feel it sn't because of it's history.I feel the word should be erased completely because it holds us back.I don't think there should be any double standard on the word becaus it's worng for a white man as well as a black man to use it.So I just want us to understand things on a higher level.So all i am asking is your opinion. Thanks! (link)
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I completely dissagre with you, seeing that I'm black, but I'm a female. White people called us that a long time ago in an offensive way. Black people call each other that in a friendly way. Now if a white person called a black person the word *I doubt I should say it it's not website appropriate* it's not friendly, because they aren't one, it's just a stupid way of making them seem cool, and black people would look at them as wiggers. It's also awkward, since if they call a person that, they'll think "what do they mean when they say that?" and they'll usually mean it in a friendly way, untill an argument comes along and they'll rethink their intentions, especially if the word comes up in an argument. It simply doesnt work if a white person says the word. If too black people fought and said the word, it doesnt mean a thing. No controversy, its all good. I say white people dont say it, black people say it as much as you want. Dont get me wrong I respect your opinion. Theres a few words that I wouldn't say to white people that they sometimes use amongst themselves, it's not nearly as controversial as the n word of course. But hey, if you want to erase it, start with yourself and all your friends NOW, while your young, and maybe by the end of your lifetime the word will become erased. heck even without you doing so the word may just get lame, like words like groovy and far out and jive turkey.
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LOL! i see what you saying and thank you for at least seeing my side.
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