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Hello -- I'm Becky. I am here for you, to help you with anything you need help with. I'll try my hardest to answer your questions. It may not always be what you want to here, but know that I always put my time and effort into each answer. I'm not here to gain points from you, when you rate my advice... I don't long for a 5 as my rating. All I care about is helping you. It's ridiculous how people basically go on this website to see if what they is justified and right, and if advice columnists state otherwise, they rate your advice low. For example, a 13 year old girl asking how to give oral sex. First of all, it's not bad if someone warns you to put what you're doing into deep thought and consideration. They are just trying to give you their opinion on the situation. Isn't that the whole point of this website? Exactly. Anywhoooo, I'm 15 years old. Yes, 15. Too young? No! I'm very mature for my age. If you dont want to get advice from a 15 year old, then don't listen to it... However, I'm still going to give you my opinion :)
Florida -- Yes the hot sun, all the variety of people, and the beaches is all here. I love Miami, I've been here all my life and I dont intend on leaving any time soon. I've actually had no choice, since I've never even left the state :0 But that will chance this summer. :) Hmmm... (And it did!)
I go to High School and I am a Freshman. :0
What else? Well, I play the guitar and I have been playing since I was in 4th grade. I love everything about music -- it's my life. Seriously, I either have my iPod to jamm to, iHome, computer... I basically need music anywhere I go, because I really can't live without it. I mean I could, but it would be a very depressing and boring life 0.o
I've gone through so much drama the past few years of my life and I'm not even in highschool. Each time I go through a horrible situation, I learn from it for the next one. It's hard, but that's life. Everyone has drama in their life. Everyone has been betrayed. Everyone is going through or has gone through these stages of seeing who your true friends really are in the end. It's a hard journey, and I'm no where near done with it. But everyone goes through it. And if you have any problems or questions a long the way, I am here to help. :D
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I have this friend Kait, she's bi and she goes out with a girl chelsy. They were talking last night and chelsey wanted 2 go to sleep so kait let her, she said good night and chelsy got mad for no reason so they argued all night. We get to school and kait comes up to me lokking so sad and says that shes mad at her. so later at lunch i planned to talk to chelsy to see what the deal was she blew me off. So me and my best friend caitlin go tak 2 her and tell her the truth about how chelsey was talking shit about Kait. SO i turn to look at chelsey and i can see her telling her friend kara watch this im goona go over there and say shit, so i stood up and went up to her and said i know what your gonna do, and i told her back off, she blew past me and started arguing with both Cait's i told her to calm down and she said no. so i tell the cait's to come with me to the bathroom so we just blew her off. jus like she did us. We go to the bathroom and we're all cryin tryin to figure out why would she do that 2 Kait, and us 2. How can someone claim to love someone tell them their sorry and then talk shit about them. Chelsey said that Kait was to controlling, she choose chelsey's friends and other stuff which is bull...kait lost everything to be with this girl and that's how she gets treated? Kait also told me that 2 days ago she asked permission 2 chels if she can go with her friend Jeane, she says yes, she finds out that her grandma has cancer and when Kait calls chelsey back chels is all on her back and pissed off i mean she just had to hear her grandma has cancer and chels is going to scream at her for spending time with her family wtf? SO kait texted chels saying she done with her and when the bell rings we leave the bathroom and chels comes up to her and screams at her more saying how dare you break up w/ me and blah blah blah...so i was just wonderin what is some advice that i can give 2 kait? she really needs it!
It's pretty obvious that she's is WAY better off without this girl. I mean seriously, she treats her like crap... yells at her, talks crap about her? That is not, NOT a good gf. And she is probably going to be happier without her than she was with her, whether she sees that now or not. Explain to her that she doesnt deserve to be treated like that and she did the right thing by breaking up with that girl. Dont worry, you're friend will get through this sooner or later, and you're a good friend wanting to help her through this :]
(Rating: 5) Thank you for responding thats a big help and thank you for your concern and thoughts! =)