I have this friend Kait, she's bi and she goes out with a girl chelsy. They were talking last night and chelsey wanted 2 go to sleep so kait let her, she said good night and chelsy got mad for no reason so they argued all night. We get to school and kait comes up to me lokking so sad and says that shes mad at her. so later at lunch i planned to talk to chelsy to see what the deal was she blew me off. So me and my best friend caitlin go tak 2 her and tell her the truth about how chelsey was talking shit about Kait. SO i turn to look at chelsey and i can see her telling her friend kara watch this im goona go over there and say shit, so i stood up and went up to her and said i know what your gonna do, and i told her back off, she blew past me and started arguing with both Cait's i told her to calm down and she said no. so i tell the cait's to come with me to the bathroom so we just blew her off. jus like she did us. We go to the bathroom and we're all cryin tryin to figure out why would she do that 2 Kait, and us 2. How can someone claim to love someone tell them their sorry and then talk shit about them. Chelsey said that Kait was to controlling, she choose chelsey's friends and other stuff which is bull...kait lost everything to be with this girl and that's how she gets treated? Kait also told me that 2 days ago she asked permission 2 chels if she can go with her friend Jeane, she says yes, she finds out that her grandma has cancer and when Kait calls chelsey back chels is all on her back and pissed off i mean she just had to hear her grandma has cancer and chels is going to scream at her for spending time with her family wtf? SO kait texted chels saying she done with her and when the bell rings we leave the bathroom and chels comes up to her and screams at her more saying how dare you break up w/ me and blah blah blah...so i was just wonderin what is some advice that i can give 2 kait? she really needs it!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? beckss answered Thursday February 1 2007, 4:55 pm: It's pretty obvious that she's is WAY better off without this girl. I mean seriously, she treats her like crap... yells at her, talks crap about her? That is not, NOT a good gf. And she is probably going to be happier without her than she was with her, whether she sees that now or not. Explain to her that she doesnt deserve to be treated like that and she did the right thing by breaking up with that girl. Dont worry, you're friend will get through this sooner or later, and you're a good friend wanting to help her through this :] [ beckss's advice column | Ask beckss A Question ]
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