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Q: I know i love my boyfriend. I know because.. well.. i just know. I don't have to think about it twice and i care about him so much. And sometimes when were just laying together i want to say it to him soo badly. But i don't.
You see, we've been dating for about 7 months and the only times we really say i love you is like if were signing off aim or through a text message. Never in person yet though. I feel like that is a pretty big step. But i know i want to.
I have reservations though: Is saying "i love you" for the first time the boys job? What if i say it and he doesn't say anything back? Should i say it at a random time or plan it?
If anyone has been in this situation please help me out. Even if you havn't and you have an opinion, anything would be appreciated! thanks so much.
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I personally think that if you do feel ready, say it. Because you know how it always works-one person wants to say it, and is afraid, and it just causes confusion. If you feel more comfortable with him saying it first, then wait. Until your ready, at least. Or, if you feel ready and enough to say it, write him a letter telling him how you feel about your relationship.
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Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
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