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Hiya, my names Claire. I'm 16 and I live in England. I live with my dad, my older brother and my younger sister. I have a pretty complicated family situation, so although yours may not be the same, I can probably replate to something of the confusion and hurt people with broken families feel.I'm a Christian, and I guess that is reflected in most of my responses to questions. Compared to some people, I've had a pretty good 16 years of life so far, not huge amounts to complain about. But there have been times when I've really needed to rely on God to pull me through and he's never EVER failed me. I trust his promises completely, and I depend on Christ with all my heart
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okay ive been goin out with this guy for around a week or two now and i really like him.... i told him that i hadnt snogged anyone yet and he said that was fine and that we could take it slowly now snogging isnt really that big of a deal and i really want to.... but everytime i go to my nerves get the better of me and i chicken out and i really dont no what to do i told him this and he said it was fine but i really want to. How do i get over my nerves and just go for it im more scared of doing something wrong but now its stopping me from going places with him incase i have to...its really stupid and i really like him so if anyones got any ideas please help lol
thanks
When you've never done it before it seems like a really scary thing... you've gotta make yourself comfortable with the idea. It sounds like you can talk to him about it without being embarrassed and he soundsd really nice and understanding, which is great.
So tell him that it would make you less scared if he just kissed you on the lips first, so its not a full on snog. Get used to being that close to him physically, and then it will feel a lot easier and more natural to go for it, when you're ready. And just remember you won't do it wrong! If you really like him, and he really likes you, then you're good, it won't go wrong!
(Rating: 5) fanks alot