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these 2 girls i met this summer went to peurto rico together for december break. all 3 of us are pretty close. but since them 2 are away on that vacation i know that they will become reallllly close. next summer we are going together to the same camp, and im worried that i'll be left out because they became really close.
what can i do to prevent this or not think about it? should i talk to them about it?

p.s i didnt go because that girl could only bring one friend... and chose her

Okay, well first of all.
Dont worry about them going away together,
I mean to be quite honest, living together with friends for a couple weeks, can really get on your nerves. They could get sick of each other, and I'm guessing they will. And when they come back, they will be glad to be around you.
Also, dont worry about things that havent happened you, if they didnt come back yet, dont worry about how they are going to act.
Friends are happy for friends.
You can tell them how you feel, but dont become a big baby about it, I myself have 2 best friends, and we are allowed to do stuff with just two of them and not the other one. We can meet new people, and we dont all always have to behanging out together. Just dont annoy them, tell them how you feel, and what you are afraid is going to happen, and most likely they will be understanding.

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