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There's this guy that I've liked on and off.. for 2 yrs. I don't even know why I like him in the first place. He acts cool all the time but I know that deep inside he's all shit. He pretends to be very confident but actually he's not. I really don't know why I like him despite knowing all these. He gives me mixed signals, or maybe it's overthinking on my part.

These are the signs that shows he likes me
- he held my hand during rollerblading (erm, maybe it's because I don't know how to blade?)
- he playfully threw a dice into my pants when my back was turned
-he told me to go up to his room to change even though his toilet was just a few steps away.
- he smile whenever I go near him
-he avoids eye contact at times

These are the signs that shows he doesnt like me
-he doesn't call/msg/IM me at all
-he doesn't ask me how's life
-he doesn't tell me his personal things
-he doesn't really give a shit about my life

That's about it. So does he like me or not? I feel that he doesn't. So can someone help me to forget about him and move on?

Thanks
P.S : I don't mind long answers. In fact, I welcome long answers. =]

I was reading your question, and one thing that I thought I should point out is how can you expect him to care about your life, if you think he 'acts cool all the time but I know that deep inside he's all shit, he pretends to be very confident but actually he's not" how do you know that? Some people are really confident, and they arent pretending. If he hasnt told you that he's not confident and that hes only pretending... you know. If you think this about him, how do you expect him to think about you? I realize you probably didnt tell him this, but I'm just saying.

The only way to find out if he likes you is to ask him. No matter what signs, I think the best way is to ask him. If you tell him you like him first, it will make him be more honest withh you. Because if you just flat out ask him he will feel pretty vulnerable and probably say something he really doesnt feel, like that he doesnt like you, when he really does. You know?




*to explain the first paragraph
what i meant is, if you think of him like that,
.. which is pretty lowly. How do you think he would feel if he knew that?

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(Rating: 3) Erm, I don't understand what you're trying to say in the first paragraph. Could you explain again?
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