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i'm 14/f
LAtely i've been thinking about my life and things i think i want to become or do for myself. The thing is i've been getting really scared because the person i wanna be is the exact kind of person my friends don't like. I want to move on in my life, but i don't wanna loose somthing really special. I love my friends but the more i spen time with them the more i realize we have pretty much nothing in commen and it seems i don't fit in, and somtimes it really seems like they see it. So what do I do ? Do i stay with them pretending to be somthin im don't want to anymore or do i change and risk loosing my friends?
The one thing you don't want to do is be something or someone that you're not. You will be setting yourself up for a lifetime of misery if you make that choice. I've known people who have made that very choice and as they got older they couldn't ascertain simple things like what they like or don't like. Then the simplest things make them angry. They can't seem to find happiness in anything and want to make those around them as miserable as them. You don't want to end up in a life like that.
It is always best to be who it is that makes you resonate in the world. When you choose to follow your true instincts then you will accomplish far beyond what you ever thought possible. If you should choose to be who you're not, you will flounder and find your achievements are less than what your true potential is.
You may be selling your friends short here. Talk to them and let them know how you feel and what it is that you wish to accomplish. Coming from you, their friend, you may change their opinions about this matter. I know I have changed my opinion about a lot of things simply because someone who was close to me decided to be or do something I never thought was appropriate, right, or cool. Don't let other's opinions rule who you are.
Namaste!
LULABELLE
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