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well ill make this short
im in a group and i have my best friend there too and shes becoming close with the rest of my group.. which isnt a bad thing. but at the same time i feel like im losing her. we still are close but i also feel like im becoming her second choice. i would talk to her about it and have no problem talking to her but i know what she will say.
should i talk to her anyway or just let it slide and not worry much about it?
thanks

This has happend to me. In sixth grade my friend Danielle didn't like a girl named Adriana. The next year, seventh grade, we were all in the same English class. I was nice to Adriana and Danielle said since I was Adriana's friend she would be hers too. This year, eight grade, I'm out of the picture now. Adriana is her bestfriend I have a bestfriend to but it's not Danielle and I miss it so much. I should have said something when I had the chance but I chose to let it "slide" and now I'm without the greastest friend I had ever had. I think that you need to confront her about it, and kind of tell her how you feel before it's to late. You might want to go and pull her aside and say something like, "You know your my bestfriend right?" she'd probally say yes. Then tell her,"Am I yours?"

Hope this helps
Briana

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