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I'm a 21 year old female from Nova Scotia, Canada. I'm not as active on this site as I once was, but I will almost certainly reply to private questions sent to me.

Let's see, about me. I've been diagnosed with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, Fibromyalgia Syndrome, Clinical Depression, as well as some other related mental and physical illnesses. Despite this, I'm happier now than I can ever remember being.

I've been a vegan since August 2007. In other words, I do my best not to consume anything of animal origin, ranging from the obvious (meat), to the somewhat obvious (eggs and dairy), to the not-so-obvious (honey, wool, silk, and more). I love this life. I have so much more appreciation for everything and everyone around me, and I feel so at peace with myself and the world. I wake up everyday and know that I'm making a difference. It's been a huge turning point in my life.

I recently graduated from high school after an extra three years due to my illness. It was a long road, but it felt amazing to walk across that stage. An added bonus was having the 15th highest average (over my high school career) out of 258 students!

I intend to pursue a career in psychology, first obtaining my BA, and then attending graduate school in order to study for my PhD. It's a little daunting at times, but I know it will be worth it. I want to help people, plain and simple. I want to make a difference. I want to change the world. And I believe I can, if only in a small way.

I think that's me in a nutshell. I also enjoy writing, knitting, multiple other artistic endeavors (including drawing, photography, music, and more), web design, and many other things. So, feel free to drop me a message if you think there's something I can help with.

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so heres the thing.. when i date people . i dont see [ color ] i see personality & charm

First of all, good for you! I'm glad that despite what other people say, you can stick to your principles and see people as, well, people. That can sometimes take a lot of courage.

Hold your head high, no matter what they say. It isn't their place to say anything at all, since by all accounts there's no reason to dislike your boyfriends. I could see them saying something about abuse if he was abusive, but not about skin colour.

You don't owe them any sort of explanation, so if you don't feel like giving one, you don't have to. But if you do, tell them simply and concisely how you feel--that you see people for the good in them, and that's that.

If the whole world was like you, it would be a far better place. Remember that when other people try to put you down.

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(Rating: 5) thanks . that was good adive


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