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Q: OK so I'm 19/ female and I'm single. I really don't want a relationship right now.. i want to kind of explore my options. I was wondering or interested in finding out about friends with benefits.. has anyone had this experience? And also what guy(s) should i ask? Should I ask a best friend, an aquantice, or even my ex? I was thinking of asking my ex.. how do I go about asking him?
honestly, i think this is a lousy idea. im sorry but it is. and yeah i have been there, and one of my good friends has been doing this more than once, and really it creates no satisfaction in the end. because when you do things, you should want it to be with someone you really like/love and they share the feeling. someone you actually want for them, not just for whatever you two can do in bed. so im sorry if i seem harsh about this...but thats just what i think. xoxohelpachick

i appreciate your honesty! thanks!

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helpachick
hey im helpachick & i want to help you if i can. more than most of the questions i answer i have experienced something close to that myself. so feel free to ask&leave stuff in my inbox or whatever, and i'll try to get back soonish.

what about me?
I'm in college majoring in Fashion Textiles and Merchandising. I love fashion, boys, my friends, music, and love being active and outdoors. theres a lot more i could put about me but this is advicenators not myspace!!
ask away^.^

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