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Q: ok, i'm going to a winter formal dance next weekend, and i have a couple of questions...

1)ok, i've never really gone to one of these before, so HOW DO YOU SLOW DANCE?!?

2)she's told me she wants to make out, but i have never done so...ANY TIPS ON MAKING OUT?

3)do i get her flowers or something?

thanks, this is REALLY gonna help me alot!
Thanks in advance!
this is ironic b/c it just soo happens im going to a winter formal tonight and i've done these things and even though im a girl i can tell you what you need to know.
1)slow dancing: since your the guy, you put your hands around her waist and she'll have hers most likely around your neck. just move with the beat of the song it will be slow so just kinda moving your feet a little as you sway from side to side is good. dont worry you'll pick it up in no time its not too difficult.
2) making out: depends on how far she wants to go with that. but just start out with kissing and do french kissing because thats better for making out. some other things you could do are like kiss on her neck and bite a little, rub up and down her stomach/torso area, and if you get the impression she wants to, go ahead and go for second base on her. under or on top of her bra either one, whatever you feel comfortable with. hopefully this gives you some tips just do the feely touchy things while kissing thats always nice.
3) some schools its a big thing for dates to get eachother coursages (sp?) but if i were you i would talk about that with her and ask her if you guys are gunna do the flower things like she gets you a boutenier and you get her a coursage. if you are i would get one for her that goes around her wrist b/c otherwise they are kind of annoying and get in the way. and if you guys arent if you really wanted to you could go get her a vase with some flowers in it a guy did that for me once and it was really sweet.

well dunno if that helped you or not but maybe it gave you an idea anyway! good luck and remember to have fun! xoxo helpachick

thnks

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helpachick
hey im helpachick & i want to help you if i can. more than most of the questions i answer i have experienced something close to that myself. so feel free to ask&leave stuff in my inbox or whatever, and i'll try to get back soonish.

what about me?
I'm in college majoring in Fashion Textiles and Merchandising. I love fashion, boys, my friends, music, and love being active and outdoors. theres a lot more i could put about me but this is advicenators not myspace!!
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