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Q: Okay well my bf is 17 and I am 14..
We were thinking about having sex but we had 2nd thoughts because of diseases and pregnancy.
I don't know if he doesn't have any diseases and I'm not sure if I do.
But he really wants to do a lot of sexual things.
He wants to have anal with me and I don't really want to because I hear from a lot of my friends that it hurts.
But this may seem weird but we sometimes have phone sex and masturbate to each other while talking on the phone..
When we're together we're always making out and trying new things together but we haven't gotten to sex.
I'm not sure if I should have anal or sex with him.
Enjoy being young, don't have sex. I, as well as the other people responded noticed since you are unsure, you aren't ready. Plus, accidents can happen, the condom can break, or if you decide to not use one, you raise your chances by a hell of a lot to get pregnant. And if he's positive for any diseases, don't have sex with him.

Thanks for your advice!!


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