about

My name is Jessica. I was born in Missouri. I`m 15 years old.. I'm a freshman. :] I can be a bitch for saying whats on my mind so if you think so then just keep it to yourself,but then again i can be nicest,sweetest person. I love to have fun and be goofy =]. I hate fake people so im no fake. I hate labels they start alot of drama so dont label me. Drama is for the big screen. Don't get me involved. However, if you chose to pick a fight with me I will have the last word. Honesty is very important to me. I say what's on my mind and not ashamed of it. If you think it's rude, I don't care. Girls that try fitting in and wearing certain clothes to do so is retarted.I don't get mad easily over stupid things. If it's not something important I don't stress over it. Respect is very important. I belive that everyone should respect each other and everyone else.




"I'm not perfect. No one is. When girls leave me rude comments saying that I'm a bitch or something, it doesn't bother me. I have confidence in myself and words don't hurt my feelings. I ignore it. I don't mind being judged on anything I do because chances are, you don't know me at all so don't act like it. Thanks to the people that actually respect me. Call me a bitch, ugly, whore.. whatever you want but it doesn't bother me. I know I'm not so your opinion doesn't mean anything to me." Screen name: HAUTExMESS.



"Calling someone ugly won't make you prettier. Calling someone fat won't make you any skinnier. Calling someone a bitch won't make you any nicer. Talking shit about someone won't make you better so consider getting a life & shut the hell up."



Likes: Music, long conversations, gum, money, friends, picturess, rollercoasters, meeting new people, my pink puppy ( stuffed ), acting crazy, doing stuff other people dont do, hugsss, nail polish, makeup, my iPod, cleaning, being comfortable, boysss,




Dislikes: boring people, liars, fast food resturants, feet, bad breath, bugs, school, major thunderstorms, vanilla, fakes, everyone dressings the same, blood, bitches, stoners, being sick, people who tYpE liKe ThiS, heart breaks, allergies, people who have no self-esteem that make fun of other pople, ugly mean people, ignorant people, smoke, things and people that confuse me, people who break promises, two faced people, waiting in lines, slow computers, holiday songs, animal prints, losers, white socks, comedians, marshmellows, eating disorders, being lonely, being left out, interfering people, animal cruelty, arrogant people, perverts, people who think they are perfect , weirdos, hangovers, being scared, wanna bees, arguments, being unhappy, people who dislike homosexuals, stuck up people, racsim, DRAMA, fake friends, and LAMES !!!!!


advice

ok i have a friend im confused about! I love her so much! and i dont wanna stop being friends with her, but im so jelous of her and constantly envying her its weakening my self-esteem.. so maybe i should! like this girl is pretty close to perfect.. so everytime i feel happy about something good ive done.. i compare myself to her and start feeling bad.. i can never feel good about my looks, grades, self.. or anything.because i realize "good" will never be as good as her. and its not her fault, duh, i know. But ive tried stopping to compare myself to her AND IT DIDNT WORK! SO I DONT KNOW IF I HAVE ANY OTHER OPTION! what should i do?

its good to have a friend as a role model, but you should never compare yourself to her bacause you are your own person && a good person at that. Im not going to tell you to change your look and become more like her because its wrong to change yourself to become someone else. God made you to be you & he put you on this world for a reason ( you dont know what reason but you'll find out ). And no one is PERFECT hun... or pretty close to be perfect. Im not. I have had friends that i looked up to and wanted to be like them too but i just thought negitive about myself and yeah im not that hottest girl in school or smartest but there are other things about me that i am good at. Its okay to be jealous about her but remember some girls out there maybe jealous of you as well =]

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(Rating: 5) aww thank you so much!

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