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i am 16 and i have never got close to a guy i have never had sex and i havnt even had my proper first kiss. I dont know why but everytime i got to know a guy he asks me out n then i panic so bad that i cant breathe. i really need advise i dont want to feel like the most innocent person ever. most of my friends have had sex n i feel left behind.
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The reason why you panic so much is cos you think too much bout it. You've stressed yourself so much that you breakdown when the time comes.
Why not you lay your mind off that matter? I seriously think you'd be able to handle the guys-asking-you-out issue much better if your mind wasnt so preoccupied.
Just take things one at a time and don't think bout how you're gonna deal with such a situation. You're worrying unduly.
I take it that you're worried bout how you should react when a guy asks you out. Why are you worrying bout it when it hasnt happen yet?
You'd know how to handle it when the time comes. It's just like a girl will naturally know how to flirt when they're around guys.
Just smile and nod your head if you're so afraid you'd stumble on your words.
When guys ask you out, you should be happy bout it and not stressed bout it.
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