My favourite quote is 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you'.
Life really is a roller-coaster with it's ups and downs and varying speeds. Yet no matter how hard you try to stay on an even keel, something always comes along to kick you in the teeth and remind you just how fragile life is. We are all trying to live the best we know how and to get along together. So take time to appreciate those around you and tell them how much you love them occasionally. A smile and a kind word speaks volumes.
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ok well when my father lived with us we would get invite to all family events. now we dont. wat, my and I brothers arent part of my fathers family. wat do you think I should say to him and his family?, because I like my family and hanging out at events. i was going to send an email to all of his family sayng Im sick of this shit and rreally pissed off!!, not getting invited to anything anymore this is rediculuos that his kids dont get invited to anything i dont mean to swear at all but i Just want to show u how mad about not getting invited to anything i am.
sooo wat do u think i should do about this? Is the email is a good idea? (link)
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I don't think that an angry email will get you very far. It would be better if you could write a letter to your father explaining how you feel about family events.
He may not even realise that you and your brothers still want to be part of his family. If you don't tell him how you are all feeling, how is he to know?
I can understand your frustration and anger, and the need to vent it all out, but please take a deep breath and calm down a little.
If your father still does not want to invite you all to the family events, it might be better to start a few 'family events' of your own.
I wish you all the best with this.
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I already told his family that i love to be with them and everything i guess that didnt help but thanks for the advice
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