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why wont they invite us now??
ok well when my father lived with us we would get invite to all family events. now we dont. wat, my and I brothers arent part of my fathers family. wat do you think I should say to him and his family?, because I like my family and hanging out at events. i was going to send an email to all of his family sayng Im sick of this shit and rreally pissed off!!, not getting invited to anything anymore this is rediculuos that his kids dont get invited to anything i dont mean to swear at all but i Just want to show u how mad about not getting invited to anything i am.
sooo wat do u think i should do about this? Is the email is a good idea?
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it sound like you really like your father family so dont send them angry emails. You should try to talk to your father about this but if that is hard to do remember this.
Those relatives are yours too whether your father is in your life or not. you can pick your friends but your relatives are stuck with you (and you with them) for your whole life. Use the email idea to open up the lines of communication with your relatives.
Send them pictures of you and your brothers to keep them up to date on your lives. They will surely invite you to the familiy gathering then and if they dont have a gathering of your own and be sure to invite them.
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I don't think that an angry email will get you very far. It would be better if you could write a letter to your father explaining how you feel about family events.
He may not even realise that you and your brothers still want to be part of his family. If you don't tell him how you are all feeling, how is he to know?
I can understand your frustration and anger, and the need to vent it all out, but please take a deep breath and calm down a little.
If your father still does not want to invite you all to the family events, it might be better to start a few 'family events' of your own.
I wish you all the best with this.
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