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I'm very afraid of storms and wind at night. I have to hand my hands over my ears to fall asleep. My heart just pounds and pounds. If the storm gets really bad, or loud for that matter, I go sleep my parents or my mom comes to sleep in my bed.
The sound of wind or thunder or rain is what scares, as well as power outages. Now that it is winter, it is a bit stormy almost every night, and it's horrible.
How can I rid myself of this terrible fear?

P.S. I am afraid right now, as it is 7:30 pm and it is windy and rainy. (link)
I know u are scared of the noise, but what about the noise are you scared of? Noises cant do anything to you. If you are scared of their booming sound, get earplugs to reduce it, or wear earplugs and earmuffs and stuff. Really you need to target what about loud strange noises you are scared of. Once you figure that out you may find a better solution. When you grow older, make your room soundproof maybe. Sadly we cant stop nature. As for me, i hate germs and gross looking things that i know many germs are growing all over. Im scared of them making me sick, but we have antibiotics, and i rarely get sick anyways, but i hate them, just because they look gross, but I've tried this method ant it works so hopefully it will help you too.


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Thank you. I can't really figure it out exactly, but I'm really thinking that it's the inconsistency that scares me. One moment it's silent, and the next the rain is pounding on the roof. Thanks.




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