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so i like this guy who likes me back. he`s never admitted it but i have a strong feeling he does and my friend was with me last time i saw him and she is convinced he likes me too. i can`t get him out of my mind, but i know i shouldn`t like him. he`s in his 20`s and i`m 15. he is friends with my older brothers, who highly disapprove of me dating. also, i see him very unoften. the last time i saw him, other than this past saturday was the begining of june. but i can`t get him off of my mind and every time i see him, he makes it harder for me to forget it. should i forget him or should i wait and see what he will do? but he`s older than me, so should i just forget him? (link)
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The wisest thing to do would be to forget about having a relationship with this guy. Five years is quite a big difference at your age and your brothers obviously feel he is not right for you. We always want what we can't have and the more you are told no, the more you want to go out with him.
If you still feel the same way when you are 18 or older, then perhaps that would be the time to find out if he is right for you.
I also think that your brothers will not like anyone that you decide to date, but they are only being protective. When you are older get your Mum on your side if you are having problems with your brothers. The best way to do this is to respect any house rules, always arrive home at the stated time and never tell lies about who you are seeing and where you are going.
You might think that life will be difficult for a while but every stage of your life does have an ending. You have a very rosy future ahead of you. I wish you all the best.
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thank you so much & sorry my respond is late.
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